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Wednesday, May 8, 2024

25 Years!

How do you sum up 25 years of marriage? 

You start at the beginning of course! 



The night we got engaged...we were 17 years old and I couldn't imagine living a day without this man. It's crazy to say that now that we have a 17 year old ourselves, but we just knew. When I gazed into my minds eye at my future, he was there. I didn't need college, a career or an inflated bank account...I just needed him! 



We literally grew into adults together and were with each other through the big milestones such as our graduations from high school. We weren't dating when Michael graduated in 1997, but I was there. By my graduation we had already been engaged for over a month. 



May 8th 1999



Still love kissing on him! 




I only had eyes for him then and I only have eyes for him now! 




We honeymoon in Oahu for a week!  



We had one big thing planned each day and we had loads of fun...minus almost losing Michael's wallet in the Pacific Ocean and almost being pulled out to sea with the tide. 



During the beginning of our marriage we lived in an apartment in Renton. It was like playing house! It was so much fun growing up together. 

We lived in that apartment for about 2 years before moving to a townhouse. We only lived there for about 10 months before we bought our condo. 



I loved our condo....it was 2 stories with a daylight basement. We lived there for 4 years and really made it a home. This was the home that I was sure we were going to bring a baby home to. But God had other plans. 

This was a very hard time in our lives dealing with infertility and miscarrying Brayden, but instead of growing apart or getting angry at or blaming each other we clung to each other. We knew that the only way we would make it through was by the grace of God. His grace was/is sufficient for us. 



The desire of our hearts was fulfilled in the birth of Owen Michael Martin on January 15th, 2007. He is a miracle baby, an answer to countless prayers and a physical manifestation of the goodness of God. 



16 months and 10 days later God blessed us with Jackson Daniel Martin on June 5th, 2008. He's the only baby that truly shocked us. We were so sure that Owen was going to be the only miracle, but God had more blessings to give! 


For our 10th Wedding Anniversary in May 2009, we went to San Francisco. We had such fun time together while Ga-Ga & Pa took care of the 2 boys back at home.



On that trip or shortly after we got pregnant again. By this point we were actually able to plan for a baby which felt so strange after years and years of infertility. 



Our beautiful Ella Grace came into the world on February 16th, 2010. She was the sweet girly that our rambunctious boy house needed. 

Ella was born a few months after Michael had been laid off from his painting job. He still was able to work his own painting business, but for the most part he was completely present during the entire first year of her life. We knew this was a huge blessing and we had faith that God would see us through and he did! Michael received a job offer in early 2011 and a couple days later we found out we were expecting baby #4. Sadly around 13 weeks I miscarried Kyan William Martin. 

The Lord faithfully saw us through the pain. This was when I took a proactive stance with getting my depression under control. It was definitely a trying time and I'm so glad the 3 kids were so young. I was not a nice person at times. I had a lot of anger and it was tough, but thankfully I got medication and went to therapy and have been doing well now for years. 



On May 22nd, 2012, our family was complete with the addition of Zeke Russell Martin! He is our end of the alphabet baby and we were/are so thrilled to have him. 



We had 4 kids in 5 years and as you can imagine it was managed chaos!



In 2017, we said goodbye to Michael's mom after years of her suffering with Alzheimer's. While we were sad to lose her we know that we will see her again and that her body had been made whole! The day after she died was Jack's 9th birthday and even though we were mourning we still put on smiling faces and celebrated our boy as I'm sure Grandma Martin would have wanted it that way. 



Sept 2017 - Sept 2018 we were a two income family when I went to work as the Administration Assistant at our church. I saved most of my paychecks so we splurged and used it to buy our pop-up tent trailer. So many family memories have come from this one purchase!!
 


Michael was hired to be the General Manager at his work in March 2018....he had only worked at the District for 7 years! God is so faithful! Shortly after that we came to the decision that I should go back to being a stay at home mom. It was the best decision ever! While I loved my job it was just too much with 4 kids that needed me at home. I'm so blessed that Michael can provide for us so this is even an option. It's truly my dream job!



In 2019, Michael and I got to go back to Hawaii to celebrate 20 years! 



This time we went to Maui and what a differences getting to go at 38 verses 18! 



2020 was such a year....we went from having 4 kids in school to homeschooling 4 kids! That has probably been the biggest life change for me aside from us having kids in the first place. We're on year 4 year now and I wouldn't have it any other way. Michael has been such an encouragement to me during this time. It hasn't always been easy...in fact there's been a lot of stress involved, but having him stand beside me and support me makes all the difference. 



One afternoon we happened to be in the area near the school/church Michael and I met at. They just happened to be having services so we were able to sneak inside and get a picture of us on the staircase that I first remember running into Michael. I can envision it perfectly! I was walking upstairs and he was walking downstairs. He had jeans on with a backwards baseball hat and I said, "Hi". I was talking to my best friend at the time who would later become my maid of honor at our wedding and I remember telling her...."He's cute!" 



In 2021, we took the kids on a huge road trip across the county. We went to 9 different states, 7 National Monuments/Parks and drove over 4K miles. It was a blast!!! 



In Sept 2022, we headed back to Maui and it seems that we've started an every other year tradition now since we will be heading back there in Sept of this year to celebrate 25 years. Maui is a special place for Michael and I. We love it there....it's truly heaven on earth! 




The day before our 23rd Wedding Anniversary, I got to walk down the aisle in my wedding dress at my church's Women's Tea! It was so much fun! I was amazed that I still fit into it after having 4 kids! What a joy to get to relive those memories. 



It's hard to believe that we have 3 teenagers now....it still feels like we should be the teenagers...although our bodies would beg to differ! 



These kids keep me young and drive me crazy all at the same time, but as Michael would say you can't be driven anywhere you haven't left babe! :P 



It's been so fun getting to go with Michael to his water conferences. It's our little time to recharge with no kids. So far we've been to 8 conferences together and they've all been a blast! I truly love hearing about Michael's work and I try to know the ins and outs as best I can. I love getting to talk with other people in the industry and actually know what they're talking about. 



Michael and I took a marriage class at church last year and it was so fun getting to focus on our marriage in a more thought out way. It can be so easy to let kids, work, school and whatever else pull you in a million directions that your marriage can take a backseat. The class was so great for us and I honestly think it was God's leading that we said yes to that class. He knew all the stresses we would have with the house come the new year so we needed to rejuvenate our marriage so we could better communicate through the chaos 2024 was going to be! 
  



This whole post has just been about life. Messy, unpredictable, joy-filled and faith-driven life! We have weathered many storms, been in deep, deep valleys and stood atop mountains with the sun shining on our faces and we've done it together...as one! 

My love as I reminisced about these last 25 years....all the joy and hardship was worth it. To be here standing next to you for another year is truly a gift from the Lord. You told me when we were dating that if I gave you a chance you would make me the Queen of your Heart and even though that's super cheesy...I love it by the way...you have kept your word. Thank you for building this life with me babe. You are such and incredible man, husband, father, worker and friend. In fact you're my best friend and I love you with all my heart and soul! 

Happy 25th Sweet Man! 

Tuesday, July 5, 2022

Homemade Crème Brule!

On Sunday, July 3rd, Michael decided to try to make homemade Crème Brule. It's absolutely his favorite dessert ever and a lot of place don't have it or if they do they are always sold out! 

We had some Heavy Whipping Cream so he decided to give it a whirl. In actuality it's not all that hard. He was able to make up 6 of them with one batch. You have to let them cool on the counter and then you can refrigerated them for up to 2 days before you eat them. Since the next day was 4th of July we waited to eat them until July 5th.  


Michael pulled out his little firestarter torch and caramelized all that sugar. 
 


The kids thought this was pretty cool! 



Oh my goodness these were yummy! 



Michael was quite pleased with his creation! 



It was the perfect amount of hard crusty sugar on top and then the cream was still cold underneath. Yum Yum! 



Even the kids liked it! 



I think Zeke is trying to say something in French like Bon Appetit!




The kids liked it, but it was a big dessert so they couldn't finish it. Of course Daddy wasn't going to let his hard work go to waste! 

Good Job Daddy! 

Wednesday, June 30, 2021

Father's Day 2021!

Michael is always so hard to buy for, but this year I ended up having a few ideas to make his Father's Day special 


The kids wanted him to open his gifts prior to church. 



Zeke felt so bad because he didn't have any money to contribute to the gift the kids got him, but he did have a gift card to Starbucks. We ended up going to Starbucks and getting a new card since the one he had was a Christmas theme. I also added a few dollars so Michael had $10 total to Starbucks. 


Prior to Father's Day, Michael went golfing with his co-worker and unfortunately he had a brand new box of golf balls that the kids had gotten him for Christmas stolen. He had set them in the golf cart and then his co-worker drove the cart over to the use the restroom and that's when they were stolen. People can be so rude! The kids found these fun colorful golf balls at Big 5 for him. They also got him some candy at The Dollar Tree. 



A week or so before Father's Day, Michael texted me asking if I could get this particular book for him from the library. Unfortunately it wasn't at the library so I found it on Amazon and bought it for him instead. 



They sure love their Daddy! 



At church all the Fathers got Dad's Root Beer and Beef Jerky. 

The last portion of my present to Michael was this Raspberry Nothing Bundt Cake. We don't have one near us so I asked my Mom if she'd pick it up for me in Puyallup and bring it to church. My parents had gone to early service so she left it in the church frig for me. Michael was so surprised! 



I loved all the little decorations they added to his cake. He looks like Mario from Super Mario Bros here!



Michael and the kids enjoyed the cake, but it was not my favorite. I know I'm probably in the minority here...maybe I would like another flavor, but it wasn't my cup of tea. That did mean that Michael got more of it and didn't have to share it with me! 

As for my Dad...I didn't end up seeing him except in passing on Father's Day. As I mentioned before my parents came to early service and then they had to go to a Memorial Service. I also didn't take into account the fact that everything is running behind so his Father's Day & Birthday presents ended up being late. I gave them to him a couple Sundays after this, but silly me I didn't get any pictures. For his Father's day present I made him a little picture frame with pictures of some of my favorite memories with him. 


For his birthday present I made these picture coasters for him. 


I copied these images from Shutterfly's website so that's why it shows text boxes. I didn't write anything in those so they didn't print. The pictures on the coasters turned out so glossy and beautiful. I loved them and so did he! 

Sunday, May 16, 2021

Backyard Projects...AKA All I Wanted Was A Ninja Course!

Last year we bought the kids a trampoline while we were camping in Ephrata at Oasis. I had been trying to find one on Offer Up for a while, but everyone wanted $400 for them. There was no way I was going to spend $400 on a trampoline. Mom and I went to Wal-Mart to pick up some camping supplies and we found the exact one I wanted for $198. 


We ended up buying it and bringing it home from our camping trip. Because of weather we didn't set it up until the end of October. The reason I wanted a trampoline so badly was to give the kids something to exercise on and get their wiggles out. We weren't going to have actual PE with homeschooling so they needed something. At first Michael was quite against having a trampoline. We had a friend of ours break his neck when we were in high school. Thankfully he recovered and isn't paralyzed. The the trampolines back in those days didn't have the safety nets so getting one for our kids didn't bother me. Yes, I know there are still ways the kids can get hurt, but they can trip on their feet inside and get hurt too. 




Another reasons Michael didn't want to have a trampoline was he didn't want it to mess up his grass. I came up with a solution to that problem though. I said I actually think the kids are ready to be done with the play structure the way it is so we can move that and put the trampoline in the gravel. What I envisioned was creating a lower retaining wall on our property modifying the existing play structure and creating a Ninja Warrior Course for the kids. 

That was all I wanted! Again Michael decided to take this project way further than that! :) 



Starting in April our first task was moving the play structure out of the gravel area. Which involved taking parts of it off from the main structure. 



He ended up taking off the bar for the swings, the rock wall / ladder, the slide and the roof. It actually fit perfectly under our deck since we weren't ready for it right away and we didn't want it sitting on the grass ruining it. 




This made it so we could move the trampoline off the grassy area. 

Back in September, Michael cut a bunch of the bushes out that were in the lower area of property preparing us for this upcoming project. 



We had even purchased the wood and it was just sitting there waiting for us. He used pressure treated 4X4's to create a small retaining wall that would later be the area for the new modified play structure. 




I don't think he actually measured for the play structure because at the time we didn't really know our modification plans. He just went with it and thankfully it ended up working out perfectly! 



After he got the retaining wall finished, we had the Dial's over for dinner. They had just sold their house. We are so excited for them and their new journey, but it's sad to know they aren't going to be right down the street anymore. You can see what how different the grass is where the trampoline was for those few months during the winter. 



I love spending time with friends! 



This is where things got complicated. The existing retaining wall that Michael had built back in 2011 had moved SO much because of the tree roots. It wasn't something that we could see because we didn't really use this section of the yard, but once Michael saw it he knew it would need to be addressed. 



So...he took the whole wall apart! It was a mess! 



The wall had a bunch of pea gravel in it so every time he removed a block, pea gravel would fall out everywhere. 




I was amazed at how well the dirt held itself up. Roots are amazing! I was worried because we were supposed to have a bunch of rain, but that dirt never moved at all. 

And no...that fire hydrant is not hooked up or functional. Michael was able to take it home because it was decommissioned. He cleaned it up really nice, painted it red and now it's a lawn decoration. We also have an old wooden water main in our front yard as well as a water meter. If you're a water worker it's what you use at lawn decorations! 



In 2020, we built this little extension to the wall on the far left of our property. That was actually my Mother's day gift....my new garden space. Since Michael was having to rebuild the wall he decided that he wanted to extend it to connect with my garden section. The only problem was that big ol' stump was right in the way of where the wall needed to go. All of these stumps were from a 30+ year old blue spruce that used to be in our backyard. There was a storm one year and the top of the tree broke off and came crashing down. It wasn't a small chunk it was 12 inches in diameter at least. After that the tree looked silly without a top. My cousin's husband has a tree cutting business so he came and cut it down. We ended up using the rounds from the tree as a wall to hold the pea gravel in for the play area. Now after 10 years those tree rounds were rotting something terrible! We knew we were going to have to take them out and do something different eventually so I guess this was eventually! 



Michael started by whacking away at the outer rings of the stump. Let me tell you this stump was 3'x4'...it was a BIG! 



He has also dug out from the old existing retaining wall towards the stump so he'd know the area where he needed to focus on. We didn't actually have to remove the whole thing. 



He got some of it whacked away and then we decided to build a fire on top of it. 




He set some of the cinder blocks around it in hope that it would hold the heat and concentrate the fire in one place. 



Burn baby burn! 



Thankfully we had a bunch of random wood left over to help feed the fire. 



Nothing like setting a stump on fire! 



While working on the stump that was still in the ground we noticed how badly the other rounds had deteriorated over the years. Some of them were FULL of termites! 



This was after the fire! It was so disappointing! We were sure it was going to burn more. After that Michael decided to go back and work on rebuilding the original section of the retaining wall. 



Here was the roots that gave use all the trouble. Michael broke one of the blocks so it would leave some space for the root to move. He also used liquid nails on the bottom row so hopefully those will stay in place. 



Once he got the bottom row in the rest of it went fairly quickly. Again he was using his laser level that I bought him for Christmas. I'm tell you if you have a man in your life that likes to do projects...it's the perfect gift! 



This kid wanted a turn hacking away at the dreaded stump! 



On April 24th, we had a delivery of crushed rock from Carpinito Brothers. They have delivered to our house SO many times. It always amazing me that they can make it down the easement. The driver was a woman this time...we've never had a women and she was a rockstar. I'm told her that I have a hard time backing my van down the easement so she was amazing in my book! 



5 yards of 5/8 crushed rock! 



Here we go! 



I remember when we bought the house the realtor made it seem like a big deal to have an easement, but I didn't get it. Oh my goodness...this easement has saved us so much time and energy through the years. It's such a blessing to have it! 



The stump was still stumping us so Michael called a company to see if we could get it ground out...they to this day have never contacted us back. So....Michael did some research and found out that we should drill a bunch of holes into the trunk, soak it with Kerosene, wait a couple days and light it on fire. This was also after Michael had already broken a bunch of tools trying to hack away at this thing. We just wanted it gone. If we could have, I'm sure Michael wouldn't have been apposed to using dynamite! 



A couple days after letting it soak it was go time! 




Michael got it started in the morning prior to leaving for work. 



It was my job to keep the fire going by adding more wood to it. 



As you can see the fire got so big it scorched the bush behind it. I had the hose ready to go so I could put it out. 



This was a hot fire...look at those coals! 



I ended up running out of wood so I even burnt the old pool sticks that we were going to take to the dump. 



Here she is after all that heat....a stump covered with ash. She was a beast and she didn't want to die! 



We were able to scrap off a couple inches on the top so we did make a little bit of progress. 



Michael was able to hack away with the ax at parts of the wood. The problem was the wood was so wet even after all the heat! 



On April 29th, we had another delivery this time from Lowe's. 



Since we were extending the retaining wall we needed more cinder blocks. I bought a whole pallet full of 45. In reality I should have bought more since we ended up having to go to Lowe's and get more with the truck later on. Always buy more! 



Michael also wasn't happy with the way the edging around the yard looked so we order some garden pavers to update that as well. Why not while we're at it! 



More hacking! 



We ended up finding some more wood around the property. So another fire...here we go! As you can see the other bush was now scorched too! 



While Michael was hacking at the stump one day he found something cool. See that rock in the middle of the picture. The stump had actually grown around it. 



This poor man was so tired. His blisters had blisters...it was definitely a test of will power and endurance! 



Since I couldn't really help with axing away at the stump I took on the retaining wall as my project. We had bought some black industrial plastic to cover the wood with to help keep the water off the wall. Let me just tell you...I hate staple guns. They are so frustrating! But I had nothing to complain about since Michael had been working on that stupid stump forever! 



More fire! 



Now that the plastic was down the kids and I started moving all that crushed rock into the area where Michael built the new retaining wall. 



Ella was gathering dry sticks from around the yard so we could burn them. 



One of Michael's co-workers let him borrow his chainsaw. 



It helped for a bit, but then it stopped working. It wasn't broken, but Michael didn't know what was wrong and he didn't want to bother is co-worker on a weekend. I'm telling you this stump wasn't going down without a fight! 



Finally getting someplace! 

I'm not sure if those bushes will ever be the same! 



After many many loads of crushed rock we had filled in the retaining wall area. Later Michael decided he wanted to go up one more row. The last 3 inches or so we used pea gravel instead of crushed rock. We took the pea gravel from the old play structure area since that area will now be smaller. 



Little more fire! 



View from above. The new retaining wall area with the crushed rock looks so nice! The kids and I also moved a bunch of the crushed rock and put it inside the cinder block retaining wall to provide it with extra strength. 

Michael wasn't able to get the entire stump out, but he got enough and then built up around the portion that was still left. He was done! 



Here is the completed retaining wall from one end to the other. You can see it juts out just a hair to the left and that was to accommodate the stump. 


Michael started hacking away at the stump on April 22nd and he finished on May 8th. I'm still amazed it was that quick...it seemed like a month of our life not just a little over 2 weeks!



Here's the new section of the wall that will now need to be filled in. We did end up pushing a bunch of those rounds down up against the wall to be used as fill. 
 



My garden area was a wreck! And just like every year we went to Carpinito Brothers on Mother's Day to get my tomato and zucchini plants so they were just waiting to be planted. 



Now it was time to start hacking away at the rounds that were rotted. Thankfully those weren't nearly as tough to deal with. We also didn't need to completely destroy them. We just needed to made them a bit smaller so we could roll them down the hill or put them up next to the new retaining wall section and cover them with dirt. 



On May 11th, our next delivery was here! 



This time 5 yards of bark! 



There it is! 



I ran down and put a tarp on the bark to keep it partially separated from the next delivery! 



Since we were getting two things they brought the big truck. 



It was so fun watching the bed from the back section be brought into the bed of the dump truck! 



So cool! 



Next up was 10 yards of dirt! 



Look at all that rich soil! 




Because of extending the retaining wall my garden wall was actually one row too short. So Michael had to totally rebuild that as well. The front section of the garden wall wasn't held up by cinder blocks prior to this...it was the tree rounds. This was why we ended up needing more cinder blocks from Lowe's. 




Filling it up with dirt! 



Zeke loves to take the hatchet down and whack away at the tree rounds down there. 



My garden section all done and ready for plants! As you can see Michael had also started playing around with the other garden pavers for the new edging around the yard. 




His laser level came in handy during this as well. He's still not done with this portion so I'll won't be posting about the finish yard until later. 



Every time we end up getting dirt or rocks delivered it is the best thing for the kids. They just love a big pile of dirt! They were such a good help during all of this yard work and I was so proud of them. They ended up turning the pile of dirt into a Hot Wheels track! I love seeing them using their imagination.



Garden all planted! 

My garden actually got expanded so I was able to get 6 tomato plants and 3 zucchini. 



Now back to the play structure. Michael started moving this on Saturday, May 15th. Our hope was to have this all finished in time for Zeke's birthday party the very next Saturday.  I had tweaked my shoulder so I headed to the chiropractor and by the time I got back this is what I saw. 





Here's a close up shot! 



Michael was using the truck tight downs as a pulley system to help get the play structure down to the lower level. In his words....this is never being moved again! 



He's a genius really! He has a way of seeing things work that I can never see. We even had to completely turn around the play structure. It was crazy, but it worked! 

We literally had not talked about our plans together for this thing until we got it down there. We each had our own ideas, but we hadn't really shared them. It is so amazing to me how it just came together and things that I didn't think were going to be possible ended up working. See that top section above the two windows...with that yellow steering wheel. That ends up coming out to be the main entrance inside. 



After talking through the modification plan we got right to work. We knew we'd need to build a longer platform on the top so we removed the upper platform and reused it down below. There had never been a floor on the lower level before. Ella wanted to use this lower section as her potion area and she specifically asked for a floor. 

This was when we paused to head to Lowe's and found out how ridiculously expensive wood is right now. 2x4's used to cost $2.79 and we paid $7.89 for one. One 1x6 decking board was $26. Our minds were blown, but we had no choice since I wanted this done in time for Zeke's party. So we bought 9 2x4's and 6 decking boards for $375!!!! It was crazy! Later I ended up taking 1 2x4 and 1 decking board back. I normally never take wood back, but when 2 pieces of wood cost over $40...oh yes I do! 



Building the bigger decking platform that will lead to the Ninja Warrior course. 



Here's the lower floor all finished! 



Front section removed for the new entrance and new decking on the top floor installed! 



I wasn't sure if the slide was still going to be apart of the play structure, but it worked! Yay!!! 




Michael attached the old board that the swings were on and we put the Huggle Pod up.

There are a bunch of steps in-between, but we were busy working so no progress shots! 




 Michael wanted this to grow with the kids so we used all those 2x4's to literally raise the roof. He's 6ft tall and he has no problem being up there. We were were able to repurpose both the rock wall and the ladder. They used to be connected so I separated them and attached it so when Ella is working on her potions down below she'll have a way up. I cut the rock wall smaller and reattached it to be a nice platform to be able to get inside the play structure.





Here's the side with the platform and the slide. 

This was where we stopped on Saturday, May 15th. 




The next day after church we got busy adding a few more touches. We added that side rail just to the left of the ladder so kids won't fall off. Michael also finished off the entrance area by putting a wood cap on those side rails. 



Michael built this railing by the slide so the kids have something to hold on to and won't take a header! 



Next up was the slack line for the Ninja Course. I ordered this on Amazon. I had researched a lot last year and I saved one that I liked, but it wasn't available anymore. I ended up doing some more research and found this course that had a top and bottom slack line. The kids were very happy I got this one. 



Patiently or not so patiently waiting to be the first one on the Ninja Course! 



Here she goes! The yellow slack line is what the kids step out onto and the green slack line is what holds all the different apperatuses that they are supposed to navigate to get to the other side. 



I love how the trees make it so woodsy. We did have to trim a couple branches when we were reattaching the roof, but I wanted to leave as many as well could to give it that tree house feel. 



Happy girl! 




It's totally crazy that it all worked out. The retaining wall area that Michael built was just the right size to for the play structure to fit and be able to have the slide attached as well. Such fun! As you can see we also put the top caps on the wall. That was like icing on the cake...it looks so finished now! 

I will be staining all the wood to be the same color...Russet! 

We still have all the garden edging pavers to put in and then we'll need to buy a bunch of plants, move that 5 yards of bark and reseed the yard in places. Still work to do, but man what a transformation. I'm so glad we were able to give the play structure new life and provide another fun place for our kids to enjoy!